Just Friends~Chapter 20~

CHAPTER 20-Advantages of just friends
1.You have more time for spiritual things

• Time and energy you would have in an obligated relationship,you can now invest into walking with God and knowing Him.

2.You can see other couples mistakes clearly

• Watch the mistakes of others and make mental note to avoid them.

3.You can spend time with others without pressure

• You are 'free' to talk to others.

4.You have more money to fill people's need with

• Invest that same money into God's work.

5.You have less gossip spread about you
6.You don't have to go through the heartbreak of "breaking-up"

• A person without a boyfriend or girlfriend can spare themselves agony.

7.You can focus on more important relationships

• invest in your family,leading others to Christ,discipiling new Christians,and serving the Lord.

8.You grow more because your heart is focused on Christ

• You are free of infatuation and distraction

9.You avoid a ton of temptation
10.You enjoy life more because you have fewer relational burdens

• You don't have to feel obligated.

• Don't be impatient with God...maybe a guy or girl would be the single distraction that keeps you from growing in God's grace at this point in your life...your time will come.