2017. I'm not sure I could pick a favorite memory, a favorite
trip, or a favorite month. Each one was different, unique, and
beauty-full in it's own way. I'd have to say that 2017 was probably
my favorite year, although I think I say that every year. I guess
they just keep getting better and better. So here's a look at my
2017.
{January}
I feel like most of this month was filled with tears and quiet
moments full of confusion. Let me explain. In the beginning of
December I was happily engaged to be married in just 6 short months,
but by the end of December I had broken the engagement off because I
felt that was what God wanted me to do. It's a long story and I won't
share all the details here. It was a hard decision, but I knew and
still know that it was the right one. So while I had been thinking
that the start of a new year would bring more wedding plans, a
wedding, and a new life as a wife, the new year actually brought lots
of tears, wrecked plans, shattered dreams, and one of the best
experiences of my life.
{February}
This month still held a lot of tears, but also a lot of drawing
very close to the Lord and taking my relationship with Him so much
deeper. I learned what His strength perfected in my weakness looked
like and what total reliance on Him was like. This year was also the
year that I decided to, instead of giving my family gifts for their
birthdays, I would instead take them on different trips. I loved
this! It gave me special time with each one of them and gave us time
to make memories together. Something that won't fade away. This
worked out well and the only one that didn't happen was one for my
dad, there were plans, but they fell through. Anyways, back to
February. This was the month that the birthday trips started. I
rented a cabin for Anna and I up in New York, so off we went. It was
such a lovely time together, just her and I in a big cabin in the
woods of New York.
{March}
The beginning of the month was fairly normal. Work, teaching
violin, church ministries, and going through the last bits of winter
that were hanging on. By the end of March I was boarding a plane
heading down to Texas for a month. The first week I was down there
we headed to Mexico for the Juarez project. Juarez is a special
place. I've spent the past several years working down at BPS going in
and out of Mexico. So many lessons learned there. My time down in the
southeast spilled over into April.
{April}
We finished up the Juarez project and then it was time to spend
time with my sister, brother in law and nephew. It's always a good
time with family and we made plenty of memories together, even if it
was just doing ordinary things. We also took my sister on her
birthday trip, which was a surprise trip to Waco. We saw allllll the
Magnolia stuff, except for Chip and Jo (let down). That was a neat
experience and I'm glad Trevor and I could make that happen for her.
I feel like April was really a month of closure for me too concerning
the ending of my relationship with my fiance. That trip was the first
I had been back down to Texas (where he was from) since everything
happened. It was hard at first going back there, but by the end I had
the closure I was hoping I would have.
{May}
This year we planted a garden, so we did a good bit of planting
and garden work in May. This was one of my favorite things about the
year. I love gardening! Josiah wanted to go camping for his birthday
trip so we just went to a local state park and camped. We relaxed for
most of the time. He fished and I read and we talked and hiked and
had such a good time together. May is my birth month and for my
birthday this year, my parents surprised me with a kayak. Something I
had been wanting for awhile! This kayak was a source of many
adventures this summer!
{June}
This month started off with my mom's birthday trip to Rhode
Island. We took time and strolled the beach, toured the Newport
Mansions, ate ice cream on the dock, and watched the sunset. I also
quit my job this month and went entirely as self employed. A friend
and I hosted a tea party for the girls in our church and this is also
the month that kayaking went into full swing... getting out on the
lake every chance I could! At the end of the month I was a junior
counselor at the camp I had grown up attending. This was a new
experience and while it was sometimes trying, it was awesome being
able to work and help at a place that changed my life as a child and
teenager.
{July}
My niece was born in July (hooray!) so for most of the month my
mom was down in Texas with my sister. This meant that I was in charge
of things at the house like laundry, meals, cleaning, and all the
other million and one things my mom does. I enjoyed this experience.
I do enjoy the every day house tasks. Our garden was also producing
by this time so there was lots of picking, canning, freezing, etc. Of
course there were plenty of hikes and time out on the lake too! July
was probably the most laid back month of the year and while I love to
be busy, I also loved this month a lot!
{August}
There were still some things coming in up in the garden but most
of that was coming to an end. My brother was getting ready to leave
for college so we were trying to pack as much time together in. We
took a family vacation to Maine and explored around up there, hiking,
canoeing, and searching for moose. It was a fun trip together as a
family. We came home, sent the boy off to school, and I boarded a
plane and headed to Wyoming to spend time with a friend out there.
Most of that trip took place in September.
{September}
I started off the month out in Wyoming with a friend of mine. We
consumed a lot of coffee, adventured to various places, and laughed a
whole lot. I came home and the same weekend my sisters and I threw a
“harvest party” which was actually a surprise homeschool
graduation party for our mom. It was a beautiful occasion out on the
lawn with good friends celebrating such a wonderful woman. I filled
some responsibilities at home and then a little over a week after
returning home from Wyoming, I hopped in a car and drove out to
Colorado with a lady at our church for a retreat in Colorado. The
retreat was great! All nestled in a lodge in the rockies. After the
retreat a few ladies and I adventured around in Colorado, viewing
sights like Rocky Mountain National Park. As the month was coming to
a close so was my trip to Colorado.
{October}
I wasn't home long before I packed my bags again and headed on a
short trip to Virginia with my dear friend. We hiked in Shenandoah
National Park, stayed in a quaint little cabin, and enjoyed long
talks in our rocking chair. I was home for a few short days and
during those days my mom and I packed all the necessities into the
camper as my parents and I prepared to head to New Mexico for a
month. New Mexico was a wonderful work missions trip. I was able to
meet up with some old friends and make some new ones as well. It was
a blessing to be back out there and able to serve with some dear
missionary friends. We worked, and cleaned, and organized, and stayed
up late playing games, and fellow-shipped, and had a wonderful time.
We were also able to fit in two trips to Colorado on our off
weekends. They were both places that we had heard of, but never been.
{November}
We were still in New Mexico at the beginning of the month and
stayed there for half of it. More work, more fellowship, more
cleaning, more fun. We took a day trip up to Utah in the month and
went on a 13 mile hike. That was quite the adventure. Our time in New
Mexico came to a close and on our way home we stopped in to stay a
week with my sister and her family in Missouri. They had just moved
so we were able to help them settle in a little. We got home a few
days before Thanksgiving for a nice relaxed day holiday at home.
Novembers end was a bit difficult as we said goodbye to our dear,
sweet grandma.
{December}
Because of the passing of my grandma our December was a little
different. We had a funeral here in PA for her and then the day after
a large portion of the family drove to North Carolina where we held a
second funeral and buried her back where she was from. We got snowed
in while there so we spent some extra days in the hills relaxing
together. Once we came home it was full of Christmas things- cookie
making, shopping, decorating, etc. This Christmas our whole immediate
family was able to be together which made it extra special. To end
out the last month of the year we got a beautiful snowfall, all crisp
and fresh. Just like the new year that lies ahead.
I've mentioned the highlights, but in between all those big things
there were all the little moments, talks with family members, coffee
shop dates, get together's with friends and family, photo shoots,
violin lessons, and more. What a splendid year it was!
My cup with
blessing overflows...
Here's to 2018. An empty calendar just
waiting to be filled with trips, memories, people, and stories. Happy
New Year, friends!